23rd Aug 2019 – what a day!

Having spent the night at the hospital with my daughter, I came home and went straight to bed. Slept fitfully for a few hours then got up.

Spent the afternoon with my daughter and her partner, and then some time this evening.

I have managed to be fairly good with food, a blue cheese and chutney sandwich (I did say fairly good 😁) and then my salad with my eggs for dinner. There was a chocolate bar at the girls’ house, but I really don’t have the physical or mental energy to resist today.

It’s now 9.37pm, I’m going to bed in a minute. Hopefully I won’t need too many loo stops tonight. I feel like I could sleep for England right now.

Anyway, goodnight good people.

Last night – my poor daughter

My little girl (actually she’s 22 and taller than me, but always my baby) called me last night at 1.30 to let me know she was having to go to hospital. She had been assaulted at work.

So obviously Paul drove me to the hospital so I could be with her.

My poor baby is badly bruised on her arms, back and really badly bruised all across her stomach. Luckily, after a several hour wait, she was seen and advised no internal damage. So home we came.

She deals with anxiety and depression every day, but loves her work. Feels like she can make a real difference for youths who have had a crap story so far.

Now she feels like giving it up, and I can’t lie, I don’t want her in that environment. I also know she’ll go through a really bad time mentally if she leaves.

Hopefully she’ll respond to my message soon, indicating she’s awake and I can go and see her, have a nice cup of tea and a chat. Nurse our pains (My little headache And her huge body aches). Thank goodness for my work, they’ve been very understanding and told me not to come in.

What to do?!?! ….

Sorry for such a negative post.

Hopefully I’ll be more positive focused on my next update.

22nd Aug 2019 – oh dear, take away.

I didn’t want to do a write up tonight. I had to remind myself that this is a totally honest account of my life as I strive to be healthier.

Oh well….

I had eaten well today. Right up until tonight!

Paul is away this weekend and needed the kitchen, one of his hobbies is sausage making, and he wanted some to take to his friends.

This would have meant a good few hours before the kitchen was fit for purpose again.

So, he suggested shwarma and I put up no resistance.

I didn’t have too much, so hopefully I can salvage the rest of the week with good food before weigh in.

So, that’s me. Not even a walk to report.

Tomorrow. Tomorrow will be good.

Aargh! – what am i doing wrong! – sharing/reblogging

There are so many fabulous posts and blogs out there, I love them, i’m becoming a bit addicted to this!

And sometimes I come across posts that I think are great for sharing (well actually loads of them, but if I did it with all those fab posts I wouldn’t end up with a blog myself – I’d be a wannabe reblogger rather than a wannabe blogger :D)

BUT…

I can’t seem to do it!

I hit the ‘reblog’ button, but a blank screen stares back at me. I hit the ‘press this’ and nothing happens.

Is reblogging and sharing the same thing?

And can anyone see the glaringly obvious thing I’m doing wrong?

If anyone can help, please do feel free to educate me.

Thank you 🙂

Don’t forget to rest! – A post from Beth

Beth posted this fab post on rest days – advise I am definitely adhering to today :D. Thank you Beth for the post and for allowing me to share – and apologies, i still can’t reblog!  so have had to copy and paste!  Here’s link for for more posts:  https://fitambitiousblonde.com/2019/08/21/dont-forget-to-rest/

Don’t forget to rest!

This is really an open letter to myself because I am at a point in my own fitness journey where it is harder for me to take rest days than it is for me to get up and workout!! That may sound weird.  Heck it sounds weird for me to even say, but it’s true! I have to force myself to take a day off because I truly enjoy working out and being active so much now that it’s tough for me to stop even for just one day.  This topic came to mind because last week I took a mini-vacay to Florida and I actually had anxiety before I left about the prospect of being out of my workout routine for a whole week.

Logically of course I know that a few days off isn’t going to undue all the hard work I have put in but there was definitely a small, irrational part of me that was a bit worried about losing ground and momentum.  Fortunately, I can stream my workouts from anywhere so knowing I could get my sweat on if I wanted to eased my mind greatly.  And as it turned out, I did get a few workouts in from my AirBnB living room, and a couple really great early morning beach runs and ocean swims in, and once I was on those sandy beaches I was able to more fully embrace vacation-mode and take a few guilt-free days totally off.

Now while I have gotten to the point where I don’t like to take a day off from working out, the same does NOT go for the eating part of this whole get and stay healthy equation. I thoroughly enjoy my cheat meals and not only plan at least one good one a week but absolutely look forward to it every single time.  For me eating healthy is much more challenging than working out.  That may because I get my workout in each day in about 30-45 minutes and can check that box as complete.  But making smart food choices is an everyday, all day long endeavor which for me is much more challenging.  I do try to eat healthy about 80% of the time so that 20% where I allow myself to indulge is pretty close to heavily.  Any day where tacos, pizza and ice cream are on the menu is a day to look forward to in my opinion!

Ok back to rest days…got a little sidetracked there thinking about all that yummy cheat day food!  Despite my desire these days to keep pushing myself to meet my every evolving fitness goals, rest days are not only necessary but essential to a smart and effective workout plan. The following is a little bit how, why and when you should be incorporating them into your own routine:

How often should you take a rest day?

So the answer is, it depends.  Of course, right?!  Nothing is really that cut and dry when it comes to health and fitness.  There are so many variables that can be taken into consideration when trying to answer this question such as the type of training you are doing, how long have you been doing it and just generally your body type and fitness level.  But a few fundamental guidelines can be followed when thinking about how often you should be resting.  It is recommended that when you are just starting out on a new fitness regimen you rest after two days of training.  So workout for two days in a row then take that third day off.  It is especially important when you are starting a new sport, activity or workout program that you give your body adequate time to adjust to the new stressors it is enduring.

Once you are a little more seasoned and have been doing the routine, program or sport for a while you can reduce your rest days to about once or twice a week.  You have at this point given your body time to acclimate which has seriously reduced the risk of injury caused by the “too much, too soon” scenario.  Again, these are just guidelines.  If you have been at it for a while, had a particularly grueling couple workouts in a row, or are just extra sore for whatever reason you may want to up your down time.  This isn’t a perfect science you guys and to me honestly the most important thing you can do here is listen to your body. It will tell you in no uncertain terms that it needs a break.  Mine sure does!   I have gotten into this routine where I push myself pretty good all week and by the weekend my body says “ENOUGH!”.  My rest days have become either Saturday and/or Sunday because I generally am good and sore by then as well as feeling the fatigue from going 100 miles an hour Monday through Friday.

As much as I sometimes don’t really want to take the break, there is one giant upside I have found to putting down those weights and taking it easy for a day or two and that is that how good that first workout is after a rest day. Your muscles are fresh, your mind is re-engaged and you tend to just get a kick ass workout in.  That’s actually what gets me through those rest days to tell you the truth!  I picture the workout I will get to do the next day and how good it will feel and I know resting is making that possible.  Again, yes I know how crazy that may sound that I have to “get through” rest days but that is seriously how I feel most of the time! Ok, on to the next rest day topic…

What constitutes a rest day?

So there are two different kinds of rest, active rest and then well, just straight up total rest.  Active rest means you are still moving, maybe getting that heart rate up just a tad and burning a few calories in the process. What you are NOT doing is hitting the gym or picking up weights or doing any other type of exercise that is going to be high-impact, heart-pounding or super taxing to your body. Some good examples of how you can actively rest are:

  • Walking
  • Yoga
  • Pilates
  • Light swim
  • Hiking

The other kind, total rest days, are just that.  You are really and truly just resting your body all day.  I find that I use a combination of both types of rest days depending on the week and what program I am following.  Some weeks I am so spent I really just stop all activity for a day, maybe two.  I take a couch day as I like to call it.  Again, usually these happen on Saturday or Sunday after a long week and I just allow myself to be totally lazy and take a break from any and all activity.  When I say I allow myself, usually my body demands it of me and I really have no choice but to listen.  I am either really sore from the weeks workouts or my energy is at about a zero and I just feel like I need to recharge for a good solid day.

Deloading:

There is also a third option when talking about the overall idea of resting and that is to incorporate what is called a deloading period into your workout schedule.  A deloading period is basically a time you build into your long-term workout schedule to give your body a bit of a breather.  It generally takes the form of one of the following three ways:

  • Shorter Workouts
  • Less Intense Workouts
  • A complete change in the type of workouts you are doing

For instance, if you have been hitting the weights hard for weeks on end, day in and day out, you may want to lighten up how much you are lifting and/or only workout say 3 days instead of 5.  Another option is to switch from weight training to something like swimming or biking to really give your muscles, tendons and joints good solid time to heal. Usually these deload periods last a week and are recommended to be incorporated every 8 weeks into your fitness routine if you are a more recreational weight trainer like I am.  If you are a really serious lifter or performance athlete, it more beneficial to incorporate these deloading weeks every 4 or so weeks.  Unlike straight rest days or active rest days, during this deloading period you can still workout, keep that momentum going and heart rate up, but it is an opportunity to give your body a little break intensity-wise that it most likely really needs.

Importance of rest days:

So we all know that taking a rest day is vital for muscle recovery.  Pushing yourself too hard, too many days in a row will undoubtedly lead to burnout and most likely an injury of some sort.  After all, our muscles actually tear when we are training so if we don’t stop to let them repair and rebuild themselves overuse injuries are sure to happen.  Along with preventing injury, a few other vital reasons rest days are so important are:

  • The rest gives your immune system a break – Yep as good as working out is for you, anytime you are putting a strain on your body your immune system has to work a little harder to keep up with the repairs. Letting your body properly rest allows your immune system to do its work by repairing your muscles in time for you to tax them all over again.
  • You avoid not only physical burnout, but also mental burnout – I know for me I have encountered the situation where I have gone too hard for too long and started to get bored with the whole process. As soon as I take a day off my interest in staying on track is always renewed.  I am refocused, re-motivated and reengaged in my journey which is crucial for success to in order to stop that cycle of starting and quitting health and fitness routines over and over again.
  • Avoid developing Overtraining Syndrome – Just like the name implies, Overtraining Syndrome occurs when you just do too much too often in the exercise department with insufficient rest periods in between. Signs you are in danger of developing this syndrome are your workouts are not producing new and improved results, or worse yet you are losing those gains you have worked so hard for, you may not be sleeping well, your appetite is starting to dwindle, you may even be losing weight, you could be getting sick more frequently and are sore more often than not.  And those are just some of the possible symptoms!  Needless to say, this is not something you want to develop and can easily be avoided by properly resting every so often.
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I gotta be honest you guys, while I knew that rest days were important, after taking the time to really think about why and then putting it all down here on this post I am even more determined to make sure I am incorporating them responsibly into my own workout schedule.   Rest days are just as crucial to meeting your health and fitness goals as actual training days are.  Treating your rest days just like you would a scheduled workout is a great way to approach the whole thing, especially if you are anything like me and like to plan, plan and then plan some more!   So thanks everyone if you read this post and I hope it was helpful to you as well! 

xoxoxo,

Beth 

P.S. – See below for some pics from my recent Florida trip…have you all gone anywhere fun this summer?  Let me know!

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Thanks again Beth https://fitambitiousblonde.com/2019/08/21/dont-forget-to-rest/

FitAmbitiousBlonde's avatarLife...Take 2!

This is really an open letter to myself because I am at a point in my own fitness journey where it is harder for me to take rest days than it is for me to get up and workout!! That may sound weird.  Heck it sounds weird for me to even say, but it’s true! I have to force myself to take a day off because I truly enjoy working out and being active so much now that it’s tough for me to stop even for just one day.  This topic came to mind because last week I took a mini-vacay to Florida and I actually had anxiety before I left about the prospect of being out of my workout routine for a whole week.

Logically of course I know that a few days off isn’t going to undue all the hard work I have put in but there was…

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A rest day from exercise!

Good Morning. Hope you are all well!

Thought I would do a quick post about how I feel today – I started using heavier dumbbells in one of my exercises yesterday, and boy can I feel it today!

I can feel it right across my shoulders, and my lower back, it’s not a bad feeling, just achy and not quite comfortable. As I’m new to exercising, even though I don’t feel these are bad feelings, I’m going to not do my usual three routines tonight. That way, I can give my body a chance to relax and repair. Hopefully I’ll be able to go for a decent walk this evening instead.

As of tomorrow, back to the lighter dumbbells!

Another blogger (fitambitiousblonde) has written a fantastic blog post about rest days, going into some details as well. Hopefully I’ll be able to share that with you later.

Teddy-bye for now.

21st Aug 2019 – where’s the veg!

Another good day! I was working from home today so managed my exercises during my lunch time. AND did a 3000 step extra walk this evening. I have to admit though, I am feeling a bit sore now!

So for morning food, 2 hard boiled eggs, a handful of natural nuts, grapes and cherries. Then I had my salad, learning from yesterday I had it later so I didn’t get that stuffed feeling. I also had a packet of oven baked crisps.

This evening we had healthier option oven cooked fish and chips…. And NO veg. Why? I hear you cry, because my beloved cooked and veg is surplus to requirements 🤣. Luckily I did have 5 portions throughout the day.

Doesn’t look a lot, but actually it was more than sufficient. And tasty 😊

We’ll be having a Greek yoghurt later this evening.

I’ve also got to prepare my next three salads. Sigh. I’m just feeling lazy now!

Oh, and drinks – nearly one whole litre of water! Then three teas and two Pepsi max.

Signing of for now 😊

Exercise – sweating just thinking about it!

I’m lazy, as lazy as a person can be. For a couple of years, Paul and I would go for regular walks, every evening (weather dependent), sometimes going for a good few miles, other times, just doing two miles, that was great, got us out of the house, got us chatting. It did feel good, and it is a fantastic form of exercise.

This time round though, I’ve surprised myself with how I’m getting into home exercising more. I think in my quest for Superme, I’ve decided to heed the advise about mixing both strength and aerobic exercising.

Now, as you know, I have absolutely no qualifications in health and fitness (i mean, look at me!) but I keep reading that just getting fitter and healthier is fantastic for us, regardless of what we do. So, if you fancy a walk, even a ten minute walk, that will be better than doing nothing 🙂

It turns out that losing weight is an approximate 80% of healthy eating and 20% exercise. We’ve probably all heard this or figures close to it. But if we can lose weight without gaining a sweat, why can’t we just go on with a diet?

Simple answer, we can, of course we can, but there are some GREAT benefits to getting fitter, that exceed just the weight loss.

What should we be doing?

Each and everyone of us should be moderately active – by that, our bodies are feeling warmer, breathing fast and we can talk but couldn’t sing a song, for 150 minutes a week. Broken down, that’s Monday to Saturday 20 minutes of exercise, Sunday 30 minutes of exercise. This can be broken down – for instance, we might like the idea of going for a brisk walk for 10 minutes, a couple of times a day. By brisk I mean our own version of brisk – I’m moderately exercising when Paul and I go for a walk, whereas he’s taking a relaxing amble.

Ideally we’ll be doing strength and aerobic exercising.

Strength training – also known as resistance or weight training and does not need weights – our own bodies can provide the resistance. This type of training will improve our bone density and increase our muscle mass. This also helps our posture.

Aerobic training – can include so much activity including cycling, walking and swimming. This type of exercise helps increase our overall fitness, stamina and strength.

Benefits of regular and long term exercising

There appears to be so many benefits to incorporating exercise into our lives, below is a list to a lot of those benefits:

  • lower risk of diabetes
  • lower risk of heart disease
  • lower risk of stroke
  • reduces risk of stress
  • reduces risk of dementia
  • reduces risk of Alzeimers
  • reduces risk of depression
  • helps boost self confidence
  • helps boost sleep quality
  • helps boost energy
  • helps boost good moods
  • can increase metabolism
  • improves general brain function
  • builds muscle mass
  • helps reduce blood pressure
  • helps reduce bad colesterol
  • helps manage weight loss

Simple ways to move a bit more

  • park further away so we need to walk further to destination
  • walk up and down stairs rather than use lifts and escalators
  • go for a walk during lunch time
  • stand up every hour and move about a bit
  • when a song comes on the radio we like – have a little dance
  • when standing in a queue, move a little – not to much, maybe a slight sway side to side, we don’t want to worry people around us 😀

And my suggestions if you want a bit more structured exercise

Maybe we should be looking a getting a bit of fitness routine going on, something a bit more energetic. I’ve noticed I like the idea of exercising, I don’t like preparing for it, I don’t mind doing it, I love that sense of achievement after I’ve done it.

And, gross I know, but I like the sweat – makes me feel like it is worth the effort i’m putting in – don’t judge me and my sweat!! A poster on the wall of one of the youtube exercise programmes I follow says “Sweat is just fat crying!”

As you know, I’m currently 16st 4lb (228lb/104kg) and I’ve been trying to get into regular exercising for a few weeks. I’ve been using youtube – what an eye-opener! so much for the old exercise videos – or in my mum’s day – Jane Fonda record and book! I wanted exercises that wouldn’t involve loads of jumping around – my knees won’t like that. And I didn’t want to do any floor work. Neither did I want to be doing any routine for a long period of time, given my fitness level isn’t brilliant – so too long and I might have given up.

There is nothing particularly difficult about any of the programmes I use, easy on the joints, can go at my own pace, not too long individually. There is planking on the floor, in the 3rd routine. But each one does make me feel as though I’m working for the greater good. Showers are definitely a must for me! BTW – i do my exercises bare foot – recently had new carpets, so it’s a no shoe house! I expect trainers would probably help with cushioning. And, as the days have gone on, I’ve noticed I do seem to be getting a bit fitter and better at doing all the exercises – including the plank!

So here’s the videos I like

My latest find to my routine is this standing cardio routine – a nice 7 minutes long, which is now at the beginning of my 3 programme routine. All you’ll need is a bit of space, a bit of time and some water handy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0x4OP0yDE90

The first routine I used was easy step routine – thinking I would like that because years ago I liked the step bit of wii fit. This is now the second video of the three in my regime. I surprised myself by being able to do this routine twice through. You will need a step platform to do this, however they can be picked up for under a tenner, along with 10 minutes and a bit of space. I couldn’t go at the same pace as the instructor a couple of weeks ago, so I did the exercises at my own pace and concentrated on getting them right. I can now keep pace with her, just. I now do this routine once now as i do the other routines as well. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0dUuUTe4jQ

And lastly, my strength part of my routine, this is a 3 x 5 minute routine, so actually feels quicker than the other programmes. The coach talks a lot as well, so your time for each exercise (excluding the dreaded plank) goes very quickly. Again, a bit of time, space and if you have them dumbbells, if not, I started out using two 400g tins of beans! Again, the exercises get easier with time and practice, so if you fancy giving this one a go, please do let me know how you get on. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0bhE67HuDY

So, my aim is to do my exercises 3 to 4 times a week, then a bit of walking thrown in for good measure.

I would love to hear if anyone gives these a go, or has any other youtube videos you use.

Information links

NHS website – loads of useful information – there’s even fitness videos and downloads for all levels: https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/exercise/exercise-health-benefits/

British Heard Foundation – again, useful information and personal stories: https://www.bhf.org.uk/informationsupport/heart-matters-magazine/activity/what-happens-when-you-exercise

Mayo Clinic – even more useful info: https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/fitness/in-depth/aerobic-exercise/art-20045541

Anyway, that’s enough of a ramble session from me today.

20th Aug 2019 – good day

Hello 👋

I feel pleased with today, I have eaten well and done my exercises.

For food I had my nuts, eggs, grapes and those delish cherries, along with my salad – YUM! I feel I should have either left my salad until later in the afternoon, or kept back some of my fruit or eggs for the afternoon, I felt over fed by 1 o’clock this afternoon.

For dinner I threw 2 chicken breasts, 1 quartered onion, a handful of baby corn, 5 crushed garlic cloves, 8ish mushrooms and 1 sweet pepper into a maggi bag and as a side those tasty herby/garlicky spuds.

I wasn’t as mindful of my meal as I have been, so ended up eating it all before realising I didn’t need it all. Must try harder!

We’ll be having a Greek yoghurt later, in an attempt to up my dairy intake.

I really didn’t feel like exercising tonight, but I did, and I’m happy to have done it.

I did the usual three exercise programmes. They most definitely did not feel any easier, a lot of sweating was involved! However, I totally kept in time with the step routine, and managed to put extra effort into the strength routine, so it might not feel easier but my body is obviously improving!

I’m really pleased with these small improvements, after all it isn’t as if I’ve been doing these, well any, exercising regularly until the last week or two!

I must stress, the routines are easy insofar as movement and flexibility, hence me being able to do them 🤣

I’m thinking I might pop a post on just with the links to the routines. Yep, I’ll try to remember to do that tomorrow.

Anyway, that’s it from me tonight. Until tomorrow….

19th Aug 2019 – missed my cherries!

Evening dear blog!

Feeling tired today, I’m not used to late nights anymore, or alcohol for that matter, the weekend was fab but knackering.

I’m not sure if I’ll be doing exercises today, if I’m doing any exercises in the evening I always wait for a while after dinner, as my digestive system seems to work quite quickly! But it’s 8 o’clock now, we’ve done the shopping, had dinner and just sat down. I might have to defer exercises for tonight.

Had my handful of nuts, 1 Apple, 2 hard boiled eggs and salad during the day along with 2 cups of tea and 1 can of cherry Pepsi max during the day.

Tonight we had our Monday usual – salmon with rice, peas and sweet corn. We will have either a choc mousse or greek yoghurt, probably the mousse as we didn’t eat them from last week. And another can of cherry Pepsi max.

My stomach has stopped cramping for the first time in days, hopefully just another day or two before I feel human again, especially if I can get more than a two hour stretch of sleep tonight.

Anyway, here’s to a return to humanity!

Goodnight.

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